do not store the requests on the process's stack nor in the big vector

do not store the requests on the process's stack nor in the big vector
Instead, they are directly in the s_smx_process_t structure.

There is no stack when going in replay contextes (still to be done)
And the vector may be realloced when creating processes, so saving
pointers to its content is not stable.

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